Dear friends of Gay Project,
we started two years ago an interview online service about gay sexuality and about problems that gay people must face. The service started only in Italian but it wasn’t a really interactive service. Now the online interviews about gay sexuality have been newly structured on a different and very interactive basis.
We start today the online interviews system about gay sexuality in English.
The Gay Project "Interviews" constitute a unique source of knowledge about the real lives of gay and gay-especially not publicly declared. After two years they have been collected approximately 100 interviews online, Gay project will not only publish these interviews in a readily accessible but also enable the easy way a research topic of the interviews published. For this reason this page was created specialized that lets you:
participate in online interviews, filling out and submitting the form in conditions of complete anonymity,
read the interview published by simply inserting the card number that will be read,
perform searches based on key words in each of the fields which make up the interview form.
The interview consists of 30 open-ended questions to which they may respond by writing a text of unlimited length. Because the form is loaded you must answer all questions. To respond seriously to the questions of the interview should be a time of between 45 and 60 minutes.
To prevent misuse of the site, enter interviews will be published only after being seen by a moderator.
We reproduce below the first online interview on gay sexuality, dating back to 11 / 04/2009.
1) My age
27 years old but I do not think
2) My sexual orientation and its evolution
Until a year ago I felt 100% straight, I never even had sex with girls and I have never been in love with a girl
3) When and how I knew to be gay
I understand being gay only to 26 years, when I'm in love with a friend of mine
4) When and how I agreed to be gay
At first I did not accept at all the idea of being gay, especially in sex, and the boy walked away, but then I was missing too and I could not stay away from him
5) The difficulties I encountered in the acceptance of my gay identity
Having been in circulation always straight, at first, falling in love with a boy it seemed something unnatural
6) The hardships that I faced and I face as gay
Until now, the only difficult situations are derived from the fact that I thought my boyfriend was straight and he believed me, but have only been problems between us
7) Who knows about me
Only my boyfriend knows me, no other
8) The relationship with my parents
The relationship with my parents is good, but their gay side of me they know nothing
9) My relationship with my friends
In practice, they began to work in another city, I lost friends that I had, but know nothing about me, when I thought these guys straight, now, seeing as gay do not know how they would react
10) Where are my knowledge of reality gay
My knowledge of the gay world are especially Draft Gay seems to me that something very serious
11) My relationship with my nakedness and others
Until about two years ago I had absolutely no problems with my nakedness and that of others, doing sport and these things I was used to no effect and I did because I felt those things straight and had no sexual significance for me. Today I think I would feel embarrassed
12) My relationship with masturbation
First, until two years ago, all my fantasies were for girls, masturbation was not exciting but when I started thinking about my boyfriend to do things to change. Now we do a little 'about sex between us, that is sexual cuddles but when we are alone, masturbation remains a fundamental thing for him and for me, of course we think each other
13) My relationship with pornography
Heterosexual pornography was left totally disgusted and in practice even by the gay, with few exceptions, I like a more realistic story with a little 'about sex that a film centered around sex
14) My relationship with the sites and meetings with the erotic chats
I have never attended neither one nor the other, and I've never had even the slightest curiosity
15) As I have tried to create my own emotions / sexuality
Before I met my boyfriend when I was straight, even thought to be asexual and have never tried to accomplish anything, then, with my boyfriend, he came all by itself and in practice did not have to look for anything
16) My relationship with the girls
I first sexual fantasies about girls, but I think I knew who did it all, now I have nothing against girls but I have no friends, but for the truth even friends
17) My relationship with the kids straight
No particular problem, but I currently have straight friends, old ones do not see them most and where I work now I did not make new friends
18) My relationship with gay guys
I do not know gay guys except my boyfriend
19) What strikes me most in a boy
The smile, willingness to talk to me and shows me the respect that
20) My previous love life
A hetero-only fantasy love life
21) My current emotional situation
In practice, living with my boyfriend but no one knows
22) My emotional satisfaction
I feel as happy as I had never been in my life
23) My degree is sexual satisfaction
Sex with us because we go up some resistance, are especially pampered, but I would say that the satisfaction that I try to be embraced by him is total
24) The weight of the sex in my emotional world
Well, I'd be hypocritical to say that does not count but in practice is a way to have no secrets from each other at any level. We are going step by step, but even so it is a very important thing
25) What I want from my boy
The total loyalty, I always say what they think, without hesitation, but he does it spontaneously
26) What do you think I can give to my boyfriend
I try to be honest with him 100%, I would not do a thing for another because I love him too well
27) My wishes in relation to my love life / sexual
I just wish things never change and that my boy was always in love with me
28) My frustration in relation to my love life / sexual
At the moment I do not feel any sense of frustration, I felt when I thought he was straight and were difficult moments, but not now
29) What I would like to know about the love life / sex other gay guys
I'd like to read this questionnaire written by other boys
30) How much I feel informed about risky sexual behavior
Not much really, but neither I nor my boyfriend have never had sex with other people
participate in online interviews, filling out and submitting the form in conditions of complete anonymity,
read the interview published by simply inserting the card number that will be read,
perform searches based on key words in each of the fields which make up the interview form.
The interview consists of 30 open-ended questions to which they may respond by writing a text of unlimited length. Because the form is loaded you must answer all questions. To respond seriously to the questions of the interview should be a time of between 45 and 60 minutes.
To prevent misuse of the site, enter interviews will be published only after being seen by a moderator.
We reproduce below the first online interview on gay sexuality, dating back to 11 / 04/2009.
1) My age
27 years old but I do not think
2) My sexual orientation and its evolution
Until a year ago I felt 100% straight, I never even had sex with girls and I have never been in love with a girl
3) When and how I knew to be gay
I understand being gay only to 26 years, when I'm in love with a friend of mine
4) When and how I agreed to be gay
At first I did not accept at all the idea of being gay, especially in sex, and the boy walked away, but then I was missing too and I could not stay away from him
5) The difficulties I encountered in the acceptance of my gay identity
Having been in circulation always straight, at first, falling in love with a boy it seemed something unnatural
6) The hardships that I faced and I face as gay
Until now, the only difficult situations are derived from the fact that I thought my boyfriend was straight and he believed me, but have only been problems between us
7) Who knows about me
Only my boyfriend knows me, no other
8) The relationship with my parents
The relationship with my parents is good, but their gay side of me they know nothing
9) My relationship with my friends
In practice, they began to work in another city, I lost friends that I had, but know nothing about me, when I thought these guys straight, now, seeing as gay do not know how they would react
10) Where are my knowledge of reality gay
My knowledge of the gay world are especially Draft Gay seems to me that something very serious
11) My relationship with my nakedness and others
Until about two years ago I had absolutely no problems with my nakedness and that of others, doing sport and these things I was used to no effect and I did because I felt those things straight and had no sexual significance for me. Today I think I would feel embarrassed
12) My relationship with masturbation
First, until two years ago, all my fantasies were for girls, masturbation was not exciting but when I started thinking about my boyfriend to do things to change. Now we do a little 'about sex between us, that is sexual cuddles but when we are alone, masturbation remains a fundamental thing for him and for me, of course we think each other
13) My relationship with pornography
Heterosexual pornography was left totally disgusted and in practice even by the gay, with few exceptions, I like a more realistic story with a little 'about sex that a film centered around sex
14) My relationship with the sites and meetings with the erotic chats
I have never attended neither one nor the other, and I've never had even the slightest curiosity
15) As I have tried to create my own emotions / sexuality
Before I met my boyfriend when I was straight, even thought to be asexual and have never tried to accomplish anything, then, with my boyfriend, he came all by itself and in practice did not have to look for anything
16) My relationship with the girls
I first sexual fantasies about girls, but I think I knew who did it all, now I have nothing against girls but I have no friends, but for the truth even friends
17) My relationship with the kids straight
No particular problem, but I currently have straight friends, old ones do not see them most and where I work now I did not make new friends
18) My relationship with gay guys
I do not know gay guys except my boyfriend
19) What strikes me most in a boy
The smile, willingness to talk to me and shows me the respect that
20) My previous love life
A hetero-only fantasy love life
21) My current emotional situation
In practice, living with my boyfriend but no one knows
22) My emotional satisfaction
I feel as happy as I had never been in my life
23) My degree is sexual satisfaction
Sex with us because we go up some resistance, are especially pampered, but I would say that the satisfaction that I try to be embraced by him is total
24) The weight of the sex in my emotional world
Well, I'd be hypocritical to say that does not count but in practice is a way to have no secrets from each other at any level. We are going step by step, but even so it is a very important thing
25) What I want from my boy
The total loyalty, I always say what they think, without hesitation, but he does it spontaneously
26) What do you think I can give to my boyfriend
I try to be honest with him 100%, I would not do a thing for another because I love him too well
27) My wishes in relation to my love life / sexual
I just wish things never change and that my boy was always in love with me
28) My frustration in relation to my love life / sexual
At the moment I do not feel any sense of frustration, I felt when I thought he was straight and were difficult moments, but not now
29) What I would like to know about the love life / sex other gay guys
I'd like to read this questionnaire written by other boys
30) How much I feel informed about risky sexual behavior
Not much really, but neither I nor my boyfriend have never had sex with other people
